The Scapegoat in the Workplace

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Every workplace develops its own culture and dynamics, and sometimes these mirror patterns we first learnt in our families of origin. One of the most recognisable yet misunderstood roles that can emerge in professional settings is that of the "scapegoat." Often seen as the person who challenges the status quo or seems to attract blame, this colleague's behaviour may appear disruptive, but it often serves a deeper function within the team dynamic.

The Scapegoat: More Than Meets the Eye

If you grew up in a home affected by dependence, you may notice familiar patterns emerging in your workplace behaviour. Your actions might be highly visible: questioning decisions, pushing back against processes, or finding yourself in frequent conflict with management or colleagues. While these behaviours may seem simply oppositional, they're often coping strategies developed in response to early experiences of chaos, stress, and unspoken pain.

For you, speaking up or acting out isn't just about being difficult. It's often a way of expressing concerns that others feel but won't voice and, paradoxically, of maintaining equilibrium within the team. By drawing focus to yourself, you may inadvertently divert attention from systemic issues, dysfunction in leadership, or unaddressed conflicts within the organisation.

Key Traits of the Scapegoat Pattern at Work

Visibility and Voice: You may speak up about problems, challenge unfair practices, or push back on decisions, not simply to be contrary, but because you're attuned to dysfunction and feel compelled to name it, even when others stay silent.

Natural Leadership Potential: Despite your reputation as "difficult," people in this role often possess strong leadership qualities. You can be charismatic, principled, and influential among peers. When channelled constructively, these are transformative strengths.

Emotional Complexity: Beneath the surface, you may carry deep feelings of frustration, isolation, or inadequacy. Your outward resistance often masks a profound vulnerability and a genuine desire to belong and contribute meaningfully.

External Validation: When workplace relationships feel strained, you may seek validation and connection outside your immediate team, forming strong bonds with colleagues in other departments or professional networks who understand your perspective.

Recognising Hidden Strengths

It's vital to recognise that the scapegoat pattern isn't purely negative. You likely demonstrate:

Courage and Integrity: You're willing to challenge injustice and speak up when others remain silent. This is an admirable quality that organisations genuinely need, even when it makes people uncomfortable.

Creative Problem Solving: Your ability to think outside conventional frameworks and question established processes can drive innovation and improvement when welcomed and channelled appropriately.

Resilience: While your coping mechanisms may sometimes work against you, you've developed remarkable capacity to navigate high stress environments and bounce back from conflict.

Supporting Change and Growth

As an adult in the workplace, you may find these patterns persist, impacting your career progression, professional relationships, and job satisfaction. Recognising and understanding these patterns is the first step towards meaningful change.

Find out How

We have two ways for you to work with these patterns at work (see what I did there?) You can access our app here or you can join the group that outlines not only the roles in the family, but also the rules we live by, the things that drive us as well as a way forward to make your life freer of your past.