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The Mascot/Placater - Unmasking a Survival Strategy
Embodied Roles Vicki-ann Nevin Embodied Roles Vicki-ann Nevin

The Mascot/Placater - Unmasking a Survival Strategy

Do you always seems "on" and use humour to deflect deeper emotions? Meet the Family Mascot, a role that develops in families affected by substance or process dependencies. This insightful guide helps you understand the complex patterns behind the cheerful exterior, offering practical approaches for supporting you who learned early that being entertaining meant being safe.

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Understanding Co-dependency Compliance Patterns
Origins of Codependence Vicki-ann Nevin Origins of Codependence Vicki-ann Nevin

Understanding Co-dependency Compliance Patterns

When people from families with addiction or dysfunction are overly agreeable, others might see it as people-pleasing -but it runs much deeper. Compliance patterns are protective strategies, often rooted in a survival-based need for safety, acceptance, and belonging. This post explores how chronic niceness can signal codependent dynamics that erode self-trust and intimacy, and offers insights into recognising and working with these patterns.

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